Apr 14, 2013

Tips : Seven tips for making someone like you

Assalammualaikum! as we know that we can't actually make someone like us right? But! yeah tapi lagi.tapi kita boleh jadi seseorang yang 'likeable'. kan? so these seven tips that can boost kita punya chance for happiness.hehehe =D 

Seven Tips For Making Someone Like You.

1. SMILE! The amount of time you smile during a conversation has a direct impacts on how friendly you're perceived to be! =D ngeeee. Dalam islam pun dah cakap.senyum itu sedekah.

-scary doh tengok hasil lukisan sendiri. =I -

2.BE EASILY IMPRESSED, ENTERTAINED AND INTERESTED! Most people got pleasure from wowing you with their humor than from being wowed by your humor and insight.

3.HAVE FRIENDLY, OPEN, ENGAGED DEMEANOR. Lean toward people, nod, say 'uh-uh', turn your body to face the other person's body.

4. REMEMBER TRAIT TRANSFER. Because of 'trait transfer.' whatever you say about other people (he obnoxious, she's brilliant) shapes the way people see you.

5.LAUGH AT YOURSELF. Showing vulnerability and a sense of humor makes you more likable and approachable.

6.RADIATE ENERGY AND GOOD HUMOR. Because of the phenomenon of 'emotional contagion' people catch the emotion of other people.

7.SHOW YOUR LIKING FOR ANOTHER PERSON. we're much more apt to like someone if we think that the person like us.

Taken from : The Happiness Project Book by Gretchen Rubin

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